In Memoriam…

In deep sorrow, we want to inform you of the death of our colleague and dear friend, Bill Spence, LPC. He was one of the founding partners of Transforming Life Counseling Center and very dear and trusted friend. But, to many who may be reading this, he was also a deeply wise and caring counselor, who walked through the healing journey with many, many people.

Bill Spence defined whole-hearted living. Each and every one of us here at TLCC observed him live that through his dedication to his family, friends, clients, and the community.

In the Fall of 2016, after surviving a long and courageous battle with cancer, Bill selflessly passed on his leadership role at TLCC. His goal was to overcome cancer and focus on his family, his health and return to continue to work with his clients. Throughout the Fall and Winter months, he fought the good fight with his wife Jolee, who was tirelessly by his side. He continued, as time and health would permit, to work with his clients. Early Monday morning, Bill passed away in his sleep and is in Heaven today.

Bill’s story is amazing. Many of you know that Bill spent the first 30+ years of his professional life as an Executive in four different industries, from family owned businesses to Fortune 500 companies before he returning to college to start a career in counseling. Thus, meeting his strong desire to give back to the community.

Bill had a heart for marriages and counseled couples experiencing life stressors, including the pangs that often come with marriage. He worked with adolescents and adults, integrating psychology and spirituality, to assist in each person's growth and healing. Bill utilized his professional experience and education in assisting adolescents and adults by preparing them for career development or work and life changes. He was well-versed in assessment instruments and counseling, bringing the most complete experience of treatment to his clients. He was able to bring his experience in business, human resources, and counseling together to offer businesses and churches consultation in organizational behavior and management training. Bill certainly provided a well-rounded approach to healing and personal growth.

Bill was a member of the American Mental Health Counselors Association, Oklahoma Counseling Association and Oklahoma Mental Health Counselors Association. He served on the Board for several Not-for-Profit companies and held many different positions in church laity ministry over the years. Additionally, he could be heard on the radio every Thursday morning where he responded to a variety of relationship issues callers shared with him. He was the voice of the weekly Relationship Thursday talk show with KTST, at 101.9, in Oklahoma City.

Bill and his wife Jolee were a great team and have participated in many significant ways at TLCC since day one. It was obvious they shared a passion for giving back. Jolee has always been regular here and is the voice of TLCC as she answers the main telephone line and serves as our billing specialist. She has been the gateway for our community members getting the help they seek. Jolee's quiet, competent, loyal and caring presence, though, was most evident in the love and care she offered to her husband of 40 years. The connection we saw when they were together was inspiring and endearing! What a gift.

We acknowledge that many who are receiving this Newsletter were among those whose lives have been counseled, guided, and supported by Bill. He deeply cared and was truly committed to his clients. There is a saying that reflects how we all feel about having had Bill in our lives. “When we have a meaningful encounter with another human being our lives are forever changed, uniquely leaving an imprint in our hearts and lives that cannot be taken away.” We celebrate that with unending gratitude.

Bill,

Thank you. Our lives are better because you were a part of them. TLCC extends the deepest of gratitude for your time in our lives and in the life of TLCC. Thank you, Jolee for fighting the good fight, every step of the way with Bill. We have been honored in knowing and serving with you both – experiencing the dedication, diligence, strength, bravery, and love you both selflessly gave all these years.

We rest in assurance that Bill is in good hands with God. We ask everyone to keep Jolee along with her and Bill’s two children, Brian and Keri Jo, and their families (including seven grandchildren) in your thoughts and prayers.

The Apostle Paul said, "There are sighs that are too deep for words." For those who knew and loved you Bill, this is one of those times. You will be missed.

Your TLCC Family

Should friends desire, contributions may be sent in Bill's memory to Stephenson Cancer Center, in the Head and Neck Unit, 800 NE 10th, OKC, OK 73104. Flowers are also welcome and may be sent to Baggerly Funeral Home, 930 South Broadway, Edmond, OK 73034.